A perfect date… Is it even possible? We say “yes.” The experts at the “Duet” dating club have compiled a list of rules to help you make your date truly perfect. Let’s begin.
- Appearance. We’ve placed this as point number one for a reason—after all, people often form their first impressions based on how you look. Your appearance matters not just to your partner, but to you as well. Consider how comfortable you feel in the outfit you’ve chosen. If you have a signature style, there’s no need to change it completely. Do you usually wear jeans and avoid high heels? Stick to a similar style for your date—it will help you feel confident.
Your outfit should also be appropriate for the venue. If your date is a surprise and you don’t know where you’re headed, opt for a versatile look. You never know—you might end up bowling or taking a stroll through a park! In short, your attire should be suitable for the setting, comfortable for you, and, at the same time, alluring and romantic.
- The Environment: Be mindful of external circumstances. If the weather takes a turn for the worse, be prepared to adjust your plans and head indoors. That said, try to include a romantic walk—strolling together at a leisurely pace helps a couple grow closer and provides the perfect opportunity to talk about anything and everything. Moscow, in particular, offers plenty of wonderful spots for a romantic walk, such as the Hermitage Garden, Kolomenskoye Park, and more.
- Turn off your phone or set it to silent. This isn’t just a rule for a date—it’s a reflection of good manners. When the person you are with keeps getting distracted by their phone, it is both unsettling and irritating. If you find yourself in a situation where you must take calls, it is better not to schedule a date for that time. Checking your phone signals to your companion that you aren’t particularly interested in them. So, if you hope to pursue the relationship further, it’s best to put your phone away.
- Be punctual and avoid uncomfortable topics. You shouldn’t be more than five minutes late for a date; in fact, men are encouraged to arrive a little early. It’s always pleasant for a woman to know she is being waited for, even if she arrives right on time. If you’d like to attend one of our dating club’s events, arriving a bit early is also recommended. This gives you time to find your seat without rushing and to get familiar with the event details. In a single evening, you could go on 15–20 dates. Any mutual matches will be available to view the following day in your personal account. Would you like to join one of these dating events? Simply click the “Register” button below.
- You’ll want to repeat an ideal date time and time again. It’s best to plan your date in advance, including a few alternatives in case something unexpected happens. Did the weather turn bad while you were planning a walk? Is the café or restaurant you chose closed? Always have a backup plan. Having a well-thought-out plan will help you feel much calmer and more confident.
- Capture the pleasant moments. Taking a photo as a keepsake is a lovely touch on a date—especially if you’ve planned something unique. These are the kinds of moments that are definitely worth preserving. A selfie, or a photo of the two of you taken by a passerby, will serve as a reminder of some of the happiest moments of your life, even many years later.
- Teach something you know, or demonstrate a skill. Do you play the piano like a virtuoso, build model airplanes, embroider, or write poetry? You could plan a date where you share your talents and knowledge with your partner—it’s a great way to impress them.
- Dates and food go hand in hand. It’s rare to have a date that doesn’t involve food—whether it’s just an ice cream or a cup of coffee, food is a constant companion for couples. For one thing, a hungry person—man or woman—is rarely at their most romantic; for another, sharing a meal helps people bond and feel more at ease. Discover that you both love sushi or pizza? Head to a restaurant that serves it, or order in. You could also attend a cooking masterclass—many restaurants and cafes host such events. And, as is well known, men tend to be drawn to women who have a healthy appetite and a positive attitude toward food.
- Surprise your partner. A date can be truly unique. In a city like Moscow, there are plenty of spots that allow for a memorable experience. A date with a dash of adrenaline is something you’ll remember for a long time—perhaps even forever. But you don’t have to go to extremes; you can also surprise your partner by sharing a hobby or a hidden talent. Anything out of the ordinary is bound to catch someone’s interest.
- Romance never goes out of style. No matter what anyone says, romantic gestures still work. A lovely bouquet of flowers, a thoughtful little keepsake, or a gentle embrace are always appropriate on a date. Paying each other compliments is also very romantic. If the date is taking place at home, don’t forgo rose petals, candles, and champagne in beautiful [glasses]…
